bareboards2 says... Thanks for the details about your friend's situation. I'm glad you and your girlfriend helped her get past the bully's mean-spirited comments. Sounds like it was an emotionally charged situation for lots of reasons. I agree that the "skank" line isn't sex positive. I read my Dan Savage! And. And overall, overall, the point of the video is trying to, through song and humor, get a new message out there. So maybe we can agree that we both have a valid point? The video would be better without the skank reference, even for humor's sake. And the message of the video is greatly needed. As that tumblr link showed. As the vid on the gender targeted advertising showed. We don't have to choose, yeah? We can both be right.